Posted by admin | Posted in Tomato plant care | Posted on 27-06-2010
Tags: Bugs, Caterpillar, Caterpillars, Cycle Of Life, Dinner Table, Earthworm, First Exposure, Heart Break, Insect, Juicy Tomatoes, Last Heart, Little Tomato, Mommy, Next Generation, Pill Bug, Proud Father, Tiny Seed, Tomato Plant, Tomato Plants, Top Soil

Being the proud father of two young children (4 and 1), the garden and gardening seemed to be the perfect location to introduce my kids to part of the cycle of life: Growing from a tiny seed, being nourished, flowering, producing and finally dying and the growth of the next generation.
It also seemed to be the perfect location to make sure my daughter didn’t grow up to be a woman who screamed and ran at the sight of bugs!
So, with these in mind, I set out with two projects: Showing my daughter that bugs aren’t scary, and showing her how to grow and look after some plants of her very own – Tomatoes!
Well, she delighted in purchasing the little tomato plants from the store, and very carefully dug a hole for each little sprout, dropped them in and covered the top with soil.
When we found an earthworm or pill-bug, the first question was, “Can I touch it?”
It was great! We even found a couple of caterpillars to put in a little plastic insect house for her to watch.
Sadly though, heart break was to come.
First, one of the caterpillars died.
Her first exposure to death was very sad and made her cry when I told her the caterpillar would become alive again. It is a difficult, but useful lesson and we buried said caterpillar next to the tomatoes.
Then the joy of summer and the picking of delicious red, juicy tomatoes came. Not that mommy or daddy got to see any, since they were dutifully plucked and eaten before ever reaching the dinner table.
No, the last heart break was in late fall. The tomato plants turning brown and wilting. Again, explaining to my daughter that these plants only last for one year and then they died was as sad as any caterpillar passing could have been.
She was finally mollified by the fact that there were plenty of tomato plant babies to grow for next year.
She now waits patiently for me to buy the next generation, so she can see life happen in front of her all over again.





